Happy For No Reason

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Is your life more hectic than ever? Do you find that you become tired more frequently, lose patience easily, experience moodiness, and are so stressed that you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel? Have you lost contact with your friends? Has fun completely gone out of your life? While we tend to think we can do it all; the problem is we can’t. We forgo simple pleasures, take on unnecessary burdens and, quite frankly, put others’ needs before our own. This is a recipe for ill-health, depression, and overall sadness. It’s time to sit down and determine how to live a balanced life. According to author of Happy For No Reason

‘We live in a society where one out of five women is on anti-depressants. This is staggering. We have an epidemic of unhappiness — but there is also a happiness revolution going on.’ Marci Schimoff

Performing selfless acts is noble, but it takes a toll we may not be aware of. There is nothing wrong with being selfish. While everyone seems to be concentrating on themselves, you are focusing on them. The first step to a balanced life is to think about you and your needs. If you fall apart, you won’t be of any use to anyone. Selfishness is not defined by an inability to help others; it is the means by which you regenerate yourself by focusing on your own needs. Simple ordinary pleasures can make a world of difference in your life such as: a manicure, a day out with friends; a new outfit.

Your mental and emotional state has more to do with the balance within than you realize. Worry drains us; yet we can’t seem to control it. We tolerate many things which essentially drain our energy, leaving us feeling empty and void of feeling. Sleepless nights ensue, and the cycle begins all over again the next day. Confront the problems head on; let the water out of the tank before it bursts open. Worry about the things you can control.

Protect your space from intruders who are intent on invading your thoughts and inner peace. If someone is rude or makes a disparaging remark; walk away. If a situation arises creating angst, deal with it then let it go. Don’t let it disrupt your life by claiming it as your own. You didn’t create it, nor are you responsible for it. Try not to solve the ills of the world or place the burden on your shoulders. Life is hard enough without placing unimportant needs ahead of your own.

A path well taken is one of integrity and honesty. Love yourself; look in the mirror every morning and acknowledge the unique person you are. Empower yourself to accomplish your most intimate goals. Acknowledge the kindness and good in you; you may be hard pressed to fine anyone who will. Conduct yourself with dignity and honor. Finally, take charge of your life; nurture it, reward it; and happiness will reveal itself through the smile on your face, and the gleam in your eyes.

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  1. I’m glad to learn that there is a happiness revolution going on. It seems that we are more of an unhappy society. Happiness is a conscious decision. Instead of wallowing in self pity, there is much that we can do to feel better. We should be very much in control about our own states.

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  2. Carolin said-

    Good post. I really think most of us can do with a bit more of happiness.

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  3. Tonie said-

    We so easily fall into the habit of being ungrateful. I sounds corny but truly count your blessings, we all have something to be grateful for. Feeling grateful for something will automatically lift your spirits, remember it has been scientifically proven happy people live longer healthier lives, they have more friends, try it it is great.

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  4. acakadut said-

    there is always a reason for one to be happy ;)

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  5. mina said-

    Hi, your entry has been published on the 24 Hour Paradigm. Thank you so much! Watch for the next edition:)

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  6. Being happy means being attuned to what gives you satisfaction. Taking control of your own life gives you a well-balanced and healthy life.

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  7. justin said-

    Of course, happiness is achievable. It is in our own hands. We just need to take the wheel and drive to our desired destination. We make our own happiness. We make our own life.

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  8. Feel free to share your Vision or ideas about Happiness on HP’s Happy Blogspot.

    All the Best,
    To your Happy Inspiration,
    HP

    HP van Duurens last blog post..The Secret of Life

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  9. Kim Hartley said-

    Worrying about things does not chnage the outcome. We really have to consciencely make an effort to have positive thoughtsand surround ourselves with positive people. Life is too short and need to live each day feeling blessed for what is right in our lives. Great post. Thanks for sharing.

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  10. Smile is the best weapon which a humen have. So be happy

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  11. Great article …

    Happiness is something which we get after completion of work…

    I will be waiting for your next post.

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  12. Happy For No Reason…

    If you want to be happy, it requires a little work–such as guarding against people who bring negativity and stress into your life….

  13. whamx.com said

    Happy For No Reason…

    Happiness is achievable with a bit of work on your part….

  14. wagg.it said

    Happy For No Reason…

    Happiness is achievable with a little work on your part….

  15. Happy For No Reason…

    With a record number of people taking anti depressants, it seems happiness has escaped us as a society, But why is this? Is happiness a pipe dream or actually achievable? The author of, ‘Happy for No Reason’, says there is a happiness revolution goin…

  16. John said

    John…

    Just wanted to drop a note to let you know what a great site you have. It is a great resource and a great place to drop by….

  17. fun and happy music…

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